Comments on: Facebook and Divorce http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/2010/06/facebook-and-divorce-2/ Divorce and Family Law information from Stephens Margolin P.C. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:24:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Tulsa Divorce Attorney http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/2010/06/facebook-and-divorce-2/comment-page-1/#comment-31872 Tulsa Divorce Attorney Fri, 09 Dec 2011 20:35:29 +0000 http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/?p=705#comment-31872 I don't understand it - if you're going to cheat at least try to be discreet about it. I don’t understand it – if you’re going to cheat at least try to be discreet about it.

]]> By: kevin zack http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/2010/06/facebook-and-divorce-2/comment-page-1/#comment-10902 kevin zack Sat, 14 Aug 2010 16:48:12 +0000 http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/?p=705#comment-10902 Myspace, and Facebook have created probably 100 fights between my fiance and I. I don’t believe that they have any place in the lives of people in committed relationships. They facilitate drama, cause insecurity, and create opportunities for infidelity. These sites are used by many, many people to look for sex. People who are dating or married use them to cheat. Sexual predators use them to find children. Everyone always believes that everything that they do on these sites is innocent, while being suspicious of their partner’s identical actions on the same sites. Attorneys that were polled said that 20% of divorces in 2009 were directly related to or caused by Facebook. Yesterday an ex of mine tried to friend request me on Facebook. I ignored the request, as I had no interest in talking to her and because I felt it would be inappropriate to have her on my friends list. I told my fiance about it, and now she wants to write her a nasty Facebook message telling her to “Stay away from my man”. To me the situation has been resolved and there is no reason to make it worse and start a bunch of bullshit. If my ex replies in any way this is only going to escalate. Because I urged her to just “let it go” she is now accusing me of cheating! I just want to enjoy my life with her without it being interrupted and dominated by stress and drama. I hate this shit, and it ruined what was a really good night, so I am done with Facebook. I don’t want to have anything to do with any Social sites anymore and I would urge anyone who cares about their relationship to consider whether it’s worth the stress and strain on their relationship or marriage. Myspace, and Facebook have created probably 100 fights between my fiance and I. I don’t believe that they have any place in the lives of people in committed relationships. They facilitate drama, cause insecurity, and create opportunities for infidelity. These sites are used by many, many people to look for sex. People who are dating or married use them to cheat. Sexual predators use them to find children. Everyone always believes that everything that they do on these sites is innocent, while being suspicious of their partner’s identical actions on the same sites. Attorneys that were polled said that 20% of divorces in 2009 were directly related to or caused by Facebook. Yesterday an ex of mine tried to friend request me on Facebook. I ignored the request, as I had no interest in talking to her and because I felt it would be inappropriate to have her on my friends list. I told my fiance about it, and now she wants to write her a nasty Facebook message telling her to “Stay away from my man”. To me the situation has been resolved and there is no reason to make it worse and start a bunch of bullshit. If my ex replies in any way this is only going to escalate. Because I urged her to just “let it go” she is now accusing me of cheating! I just want to enjoy my life with her without it being interrupted and dominated by stress and drama. I hate this shit, and it ruined what was a really good night, so I am done with Facebook. I don’t want to have anything to do with any Social sites anymore and I would urge anyone who cares about their relationship to consider whether it’s worth the stress and strain on their relationship or marriage.

]]> By: Tulsa Divorce Attorney http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/2010/06/facebook-and-divorce-2/comment-page-1/#comment-9413 Tulsa Divorce Attorney Thu, 01 Jul 2010 16:42:23 +0000 http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/?p=705#comment-9413 LOL, you know what Stephens... you are telling the truth in this post, and I am still chuckling after reading it. The sad fact, is that people who are cheating on their spouses... know that they should hide it... but when it comes to different forms of media (whether it is texting on a cell phone, Facebook, Myspace, emails, etc.), these cheaters let the world (and their spouses) know the deep dark truth. Good post, Daniel LOL, you know what Stephens… you are telling the truth in this post, and I am still chuckling after reading it.

The sad fact, is that people who are cheating on their spouses… know that they should hide it… but when it comes to different forms of media (whether it is texting on a cell phone, Facebook, Myspace, emails, etc.), these cheaters let the world (and their spouses) know the deep dark truth.

Good post,

Daniel

]]> By: D.H. http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/2010/06/facebook-and-divorce-2/comment-page-1/#comment-9138 D.H. Wed, 09 Jun 2010 00:46:00 +0000 http://oregondivorceblog.com/wordpress/?p=705#comment-9138 It's even more embarrassing when a judge goes through your client's phone pics. Arg. It’s even more embarrassing when a judge goes through your client’s phone pics. Arg.

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